Let’s backtrack a little bit. In the last article, we mentioned a few situations that can make one think down on themselves. In one situation, the person was unemployed, and in one, he was fired. Being unemployed is nowhere utter failure. It is a step in life. Being sacked or fired is another step. There are only few people that will not get fired in their lifetime. We can fix each of these steps. In fact, we can fix most of the experience we face in life. We just need to find the right key. Sometimes, we need help. [Read more…] about Master’s Degree in Life Events
Being smart or being less smart is not a safeguard to ultimate success in life. Some people we thought were not smart in their childhood took on themselves to change that stigmata, and they did. Some others that were thought to be gifted – and who took it for granted – lazed themselves out of intentional action and became expectedly ordinary people. Being intentional in life makes the difference. [Read more…] about How you View yourself Determines Who you Become
Christianity is one vivid example of how changing people’s beliefs can have a profound impact in their lives. We have seen devout criminals turn their lives around when they met the message of the bible and the transformation that came was phenomenal. [Read more…] about The mindset that offsets obstacles and increases confidence
We all are
This morning, I experienced something very unusual. I got myself in a situation where I faced my fear. I’m not going to tell you what my fear is, but I panicked and could fall if I didn’t have a good balance. My heart pumped, my nerves fired a good dose of hormones and I almost stopped breathing. Where is my confidence guy? Um huh. No, all my confidence jumped off the window. It took me a minute to go looking for it again. Ok, I’m being sarcastic, but I faced my fear this morning. [Read more…] about …but I’m Scared!
It is wisdom to be thorough when using it
Always a pleasure to meet you. When I went to high school, they taught me how to write a composition. There were multiple ways to compose a paper and one of them was discussion. Here is an example of a discussion. [Read more…] about Human mind is a polygon
Write it down and let’s check it back later!
It’s a pleasure to meet you again. On May 19th, 2014, Miranda Lambert released a country rock duet with Carrie Underwood called “Somethin’ Bad.” The plot is just something bad happening. They predicted it, and they acted on it as you see in the clip of the song. [Read more…] about If You Think You Know, Maybe You Do
His nephew had stolen it
It’s a pleasure to meet you again. One day, a Chinese farmer lost his axe. He thought in himself a bit, and realized his nephew was the only person who knew where he hid it. Obviously, the nephew has stolen it. What did the uncle do then? He did what every wise uncle would do: he kept his silence, hoping that the nephew would come out and declare his decline of morals or would entrap himself by making unintentional avows. The uncle waited but the nephew tarried. And something surprising happened. [Read more…] about The Chinese farmer who lost his axe
He did not have enough confidence to ask for help or to quit
Let me surprise you with a wild true story. Once upon a time, two boys were fighting. Or were they? In fact, one was beating up on the other. I can’t remember how they got to the fists, but that’s not important. Apparently, there was no other way for the boys to settle their issue than to throw fits at each other. Now although you’d call it a fight, one boy stood there with one shoulder facing the other boy. The other boy was hitting his shoulder repeatedly. When the left shoulder was tired of receiving the beating, the boy turned the other way and the other boy continued hitting. [Read more…] about The Beggar Who Failed to Beg
Once upon a time, when we needed help, we rushed down the street or across the highway to find it. We went to grandpa or grandma. Back then, we just suspected that our grandparents had life experience: therefore, they could provide us with all the help we needed. Nothing bad with that. Age enforces experience in us whether we are conscious of the matter or not. But what is also true and fair to say is that we gain experience in whichever circumstances life takes us. If life does not take us through a specific route, chances are we are not going to develop any experience in that area. [Read more…] about Breaking loose from the old way of finding help
How much would you pay someone who offered to sit tight, their elbows fixed on the table with their hands on their mouth, and tilted forward toward you listening to you for as long as it takes until you had nothing more to add whether your speech were stressful, accusatory, or praiseful? Or what was the last time you listened to someone from start to end without interrupting? Those that listen possess the most powerful spiritual strength only known to able leaders. You will not understand if you do not listen. You will not be productive if you don’t leave your seat to step in another person’s shoes, which is empathy. Let’s consider these terms more in-depth, one at a time. [Read more…] about Listening with Understanding and Empathy