You can be distracted sometimes without noticing it or with no power to avoid it. You can also be distracted because you make a choice to be distracted. But if you are distracted all the time, it is almost impossible for you to give your best. Distraction is healthy with taken with moderation and intentionality. You can only give your best and do your best in that instance as this article will show you. [Read more…] about How to Do your Best in Life 3
It is possible to do our best, offer our best self, and yield the best results in life. We just need willingness and a plan. we started this series of posts on this topic last week. If you did not read the first post, go here and read it. Let’s continue with tip#2 to see how to do our best in life. [Read more…] about How to Do your Best in Life 2
Doing our best is not so easy to some of us. It does not come naturally. But to guarantee success or just the sense of fulfillment, we must try our best and not hold back on our skills on anything we do. So how to try our best? [Read more…] about How to Do your Best in Life 1
Even when you are talented about something, learning must still take place. Ben Carson (the neurosurgeon who made history by performing the first surgery on German conjoint twins and who later became Secretary of State under President Trump) was nicknamed gifted hands. He was a gifted surgeon indeed. But did he go to school to learn the art? He did. Maybe that is not a good example because everyone needs to go to a med school to become a medical doctor. But when your child shows talent in something such as an instrument, what do you do? Do you send them to art school to perfect his or her art or do you just shoot them in the world to excel in music? The point is that even talent needs shaping and sharpening. Having someone guide you does not mean that you are not smart or talented anymore. [Read more…] about You are unique, okay?
Sometimes, our biggest resolves come from the biggest failures. Therefore, our worse failures must spark our intense desire to win. Failing badly doesn’t mean failing for good. There is a zest of success in every defeat. We just need to identify it and act on it. If we act on our defeats, we will get ahead, and sometimes get ahead of our competitors and our peers. [Read more…] about The Top Start- at the Bottom
People with a fixed mindset will not show interest in learning. Here is how they will likely behave if you give them your opinion on where they are found lacking. Either they know they are right regardless of what you say, or they will thank you and promise to investigate it when they feel the need to know. I am tempted to say that there is no point of insisting to tell them how to improve. [Read more…] about Five Powerful Suggestions That Will Change Your Life
Everything we are saying here is just words. You can choose to harken to them or to dismiss them as hearsay. But if you decide to change what you have internalized if it’s not in alignment with the growth mindset that God created each one of us with, you will see the change sooner than you expect. If you have the growth mindset, I encourage you: keep doing the right thing. It will pay off over time. [Read more…] about 5 Truths you Should Know
I am going to ask you a series of questions. I want you to say yes or no. Don’t overthink them. Just say what is most appropriate.
- Your family is in a place where you can’t do anything to improve your condition.
- You can try a few things, but you don’t see how these are going to improve your family’s condition.
- Even though your family is prosperous right now, you can still improve a thing or two to put your family at a more stable situation.
- You can always improve the emotional stability of your family.
Let’s backtrack a little bit. In the last article, we mentioned a few situations that can make one think down on themselves. In one situation, the person was unemployed, and in one, he was fired. Being unemployed is nowhere utter failure. It is a step in life. Being sacked or fired is another step. There are only few people that will not get fired in their lifetime. We can fix each of these steps. In fact, we can fix most of the experience we face in life. We just need to find the right key. Sometimes, we need help. [Read more…] about Master’s Degree in Life Events
Being smart or being less smart is not a safeguard to ultimate success in life. Some people we thought were not smart in their childhood took on themselves to change that stigmata, and they did. Some others that were thought to be gifted – and who took it for granted – lazed themselves out of intentional action and became expectedly ordinary people. Being intentional in life makes the difference. [Read more…] about How you View yourself Determines Who you Become